Anecdote #33

People go through their own battles in their daily which can never be fully comprehended by any other human. Mostly our egos cloud our judgements. When our friends don't reply to our messages we think they're ignoring us, when people seem distant we think that they don't value us and when they respond with irritation we label them as moody. Yes, all this hurts and leaves us perplexed but that doesn't give us the liberty to label that person as a particular type.

There are many individuals who don't let people in their inner space which is probably because their lives are embroiled with complications and they do not wish to entangle others in this mess. This is completely justified because people with materialistic desires don't have the ability to see through the realities of other's lives. Most people are like that today. I don't blame individuals for being selfish but that doesn't give them the right to pry into other person's lives. Friendships these days follow dictated terms, there is no freedom for self exploration or discovery as you're burdened with expectations of group behaviour.

At times the only person who will be able to understand your predicament is yourself. The harsh truth is that at time you may have to take on the responsibility of the caregiver and hide your worries. It is true that human's don't share their hassles because a lot of times they are not their's to share. We cannot force them to come out but can respect their sense of space. Don't compare people to yourself because the simple fact is that you lead different lives. Don't attribute your reason's of getting upset to them, they have their own battles and you have your's. The best thing to do at times is to live and to let live. Don't try to be a messiah, you're not God. Be humane like a human.